Co-owning the Alexander Homestead is a huge joy and privilege to me. When I was 14, my parents bought a historic home in Missouri, and we spent my high school years renovating it. My sister was married at The Larimore in 1994 and this was the birth of our family’s involvement in weddings.

Growing up around weddings gives me a unique ability to run our business and work with our couples. I have a passion for the wedding industry, but more specifically, female entrepreneurship. My family has owned and operated 5 different venues, so we truly know how to meet the needs of today’s busy couples. In addition to our venue, I founded Charlotte Local Wedding Show (a show that features predominately all female-owned, local businesses), Live Encouraged (a life-coaching course), and enjoy public speaking in the wedding industry and coaching other venue owners to aid in their success.

When I’m not working my businesses, you’ll see me spending every moment I can with my two teenagers, traveling, and volunteering at our church. Feel free to sign up for my newsletter/blog at tirzahcaffee.com.

I grew up in Buffalo, NY, and made my way to Charlotte in 2017. This wonderful sunny place is now where I call home. I love to travel, anywhere from Blowing Rock to The Netherlands and lots of places in between.

Being part of the team at Alexander Homestead fulfills me in many ways. My real passion is meeting people and hearing their stories. Every day I get to connect with couples who are recently engaged and overwhelmed with thoughts of “Where do we even start?”. I believe this process should be fun, so I take pride in educating others on our stress-free, all-inclusive mojo here. My goal is to listen to you, understand your preferences, and share all the ways you can customize your day. I like to laugh so there will be lots of that when you meet me, too! My role is super fun and showing you around our beautiful space is hands-down the best job ever. Oh, and Go Bills.

Hi! I am Carolann, wife to an amazing husband and dog mom to the sweetest Boston Terrier. After years in food service management at Chick-fil-A, I went into the education field to pursue special education with my Bachelor’s degree from UNCC. Even though I have a love for teaching, I found I have an even greater passion for wedding planning. I have experience in wedding planning and coordination, and I love working with couples to plan a beautiful day they will always remember. So much time, planning, and preparation is put into a wedding, and it is the best feeling when it all comes together so beautifully. My favorite part about any wedding is always the ceremony. I almost always will have goosebumps watching a ceremony. It is such a special moment to get to witness. When I am not managing weddings, I enjoy spending time with family and friends, shopping, visiting the beach or mountains, and most often, relaxing!

My name is Joy, mother to three daughters, and wife to one wonderful man. I truly love what I get to be a part of here at the Homestead. I have participated in executing hundreds of wedding and receptions, and so enjoy watching two people declare their love and commitment for each other, in the presence of their people. I am super resourceful, positive, and love to find creative ways to handle the unexpected. It is always such an honor for me to walk with a bride and groom through their special day! Some of my favorite things include exploring nature, hanging out with teenagers, jewelry making, and traveling with my family!

Hi there! I’m Danielle, a sunshine loving Florida gal who made her way up to Charlotte two years ago. I am an avid traveler, love hearing people’s stories, and will never say no to a good chai latte. I went to the University of Central Florida where I received by Bachelor’s in English and Creative Writing, but found I enjoyed being a part of other people’s stories and big events, more than just writing about them. I have done photography as a side hustle for years, which was a great gateway into the wedding business. I am thrilled to get to work in an industry that helps curate both beautiful events and plays a part in helping people create lifelong memories, all alongside a team that is passionate about what they do every day. In my free time you can find me going on a last-minute road trip, curled up with a book at a coffee shop, or trying out new restaurants and breweries with friends.

I have the great privilege of getting to be co-owner of the Alexander Homestead. Now in my second career, I began as a minister for 12 years where I grew to love helping people, especially couples getting married. Now I spend my time making certain your venue is ready and waiting for your guests. From keeping the property looking beautiful to making sure quality staff is in place, I am usually the unseen part of this team but still love hearing that guests thought your wedding was stunning. I also serve as the teacher for our Marriage Enrichment Seminar that we offer to all of our couples. From time to time, you may even catch me serving bar at your reception, running your photo booth, or serving dinner to your guests.

When I am not at the Homestead, you will find me helping my two teenagers with school projects, working out at the gym, or writing my latest novel. The last novel in The Chase Runner Series releases in September 2022. After God, my wife, and my kids, my writing brings me the most joy in life. A quiet corner with headphones is all I need to get lost for hours as the story comes together. Beyond that, I am a stock-holding fan of the Green Bay Packers, a huge Star Wars geek, and an avid board game player.